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Friday, October 4, 2019

The Epistle to Philemon: Faithful Forgiveness! (Verses 19-25)


Hello Friends!

Welcome to the completion of our Encouraging Concepts Bible study series focused on the powerful little “epistle” of Philemon written by the great “Apostle Paul” as a personal plea to his “beloved” brother – “Faithful Forgiveness!

The Epistle to Philemon: Faithful Forgiveness! (Verses 19-25)

19 I Paul have written it with mine own hand, I will repay it: albeit I do not say to thee how thou owest unto me even thine own self besides. 20 Yea, brother, let me have joy of thee in the Lord: refresh my bowels in the Lord. 21 Having confidence in thy obedience I wrote unto thee, knowing that thou wilt also do more than I say. 22 But withal prepare me also a lodging: for I trust that through your prayers I shall be given unto you. 23 There salute thee Epaphras, my fellowprisoner in Christ Jesus; 24 Marcus, Aristarchus, Demas, Lucas, my fellowlabourers. 25 The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen Philemon 19-25

OPENING POINTS TO PONDER: Through a meaningful MODERATION of this deep DISPUTE between brother “Philemon” and brother “Onesimus” emerges a magnificent MINISTRY opportunity of which represents a caring Christ-like act on the part of “Paul” himself. And in this particular closing scenario, brother “Paul” purposefully PAYS the departed DEBT that is “owed” to his brother “Philemon” on behalf of “Onesimus” in FULL order. Therefore, “Paul” in the correct “Christian” context brings together a once “wronged” situation through real RESTITUTION of a right RELATIONSHIP between these spiritual siblings by acting as their – Mindful MODERATOR!

MOTIVES of Forgiveness!

This wonderful “work” of forever FORGIVENESS offered from deep within the “heart” here in these final PASSIONATE passages caringly concludes with FOUR aspects of real RELATIONSHIPS within the family of our Great “God” Himself:

FIRST: A righteous REPAYMENT unto – Reconciliation!

SECOND: A beautiful BLESSING unto – Others!

THIRD: A godly ACCOUTABILITY unto – Leadership!

FOURTH: A great GRACE from – God!

Each of these AMAZING aspects of meaningful MINISTRY are gladly given unto each of “us” by our loving “Lord Jesus Christ” in full!

A Righteous REPAYMENT!

The FIRST mindful motivation to fully FORGIVE from deep within the “heart” is rightly KNOWING that “we” can become a righteous REPAYMENT as such:

I Paul have written it with mine own hand, I will repay it: albeit I do not say to thee how thou owest unto me even thine own self besides Philemon 19

Here we see that “Paul” offers HIMSELF through his “own hand” as the substitute settled “account” for the FULL financial payment of the monetary DEBT of which “Onesimus” rightly “owed” to his brother “Philemon” in kind. This is “Paul’s” personal signature on his poignant PROMISE in full FAITH to rightly “repay” a deep DEBT owed to him – BY someone ELSE!

Incidentally, “Paul” offered the very SAME sweet “salutation” to which he closes his loving “letter” sent unto the Colossians fine “fellowship” as he concludes his deep LOVING thoughts:

The salutation by the hand of me Paul. Remember my bonds. Grace be with you. Amen Colossians 4:18

In BOTH of these incredible instances, the “Apostle Paul” by his own “hand” places his authenticating name on these CARING correspondences. And here “Paul” is in a sense signing a blank check so to speak for brother “Philemon” to fill in the appropriate amount as was necessary. WHY? Because whatever “Onesimus” originally OWED his spiritual “brother” and mindful “master” outright, the powerful PROMISE provided from “Paul” has been willingly “written” down in his APOSTOLIC ink as such – Paul WILL Pay!

THEOLOIGICAL THOUGHTS: It is very IMPORTANT to recognize that “Philemon” was not only a man who is OWED a dire DEBT himself. He is also a deep DEBTOR of whom OWES someone else an ever far greater deliberated DEBT as such. In fact, whatever “Onesimus” had OWED his “master” was far less than what “Philemon” had OWED his spiritual brother “Paul” in kind. WHY? Because “Paul” had lovingly led brother “Philemon” to the sweet SAVING great GRACE of our “Lord Jesus Christ” Himself. Therefore, way BEYOND the mundane materially mandated DEBT that “Onesimus” had rightly OWED unto “Philemon” is the spiritual eternal DEBT of which “Philemon” originally OWED unto “Paul” as such:

Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven. Therefore is the kingdom of heaven likened unto a certain king, which would take account of his servants. And when he had begun to reckon, one was brought unto him, which owed him ten thousand talents. But forasmuch as he had not to pay, his lord commanded him to be sold, and his wife, and children, and all that he had, and payment to be made. The servant therefore fell down, and worshipped him, saying, Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay thee all. Then the lord of that servant was moved with compassion, and loosed him, and forgave him the debt. But the same servant went out, and found one of his fellowservants, which owed him an hundred pence: and he laid hands on him, and took him by the throat, saying, Pay me that thou owest. And his fellowservant fell down at his feet, and besought him, saying, Have patience with me, and I will pay thee all. And he would not: but went and cast him into prison, till he should pay the debt. So when his fellowservants saw what was done, they were very sorry, and came and told unto their lord all that was done. Then his lord, after that he had called him, said unto him, O thou wicked servant, I forgave thee all that debt, because thou desiredst me: Shouldest not thou also have had compassion on thy fellowservant, even as I had pity on thee? And his lord was wroth, and delivered him to the tormentors, till he should pay all that was due unto him. So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses Matthew 18:21–35

This poignant point of REPAYMENT presents a perfect PICTURE rightly representing the COMPLETE and full FORGIVENSS of our “sins” by our great “God” through the permanent POWER of His sweet – SAVING Gospel!

A Beautiful BLESSING!

The SECOND mindful motivation to fully FORGIVE from deep within the “heart” is rightly KNOWING that “we” can become a beautiful BLESSING unto other people:

Yea, brother, let me have joy of thee in the Lord: refresh my bowels in the Lord. Having confidence in thy obedience I wrote unto thee, knowing that thou wilt also do more than I say Philemon 20-21

Brother “Paul” had already come to lavishly “love” his “begotten” brother “Onesimus” of whom he had ALSO led to “Jesus Christ” through a SAVING fulfilled “faith” in HIM alone. Thus, he “wrote” this loving “letter” to brother “Philemon” with complete “confidence” in keenly “knowing” this mighty “man of God” would indeed “do more” than that…

If there be therefore any consolation in Christ, if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any bowels and mercies, fulfil ye my joy, that ye be likeminded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind. Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves. Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others Philippians 2:1-4

Therefore, when “we” fully FORGIVE someone else according to the “things of others” as such, we’ll become a bold BLESSING unto many other people abroad. And by “looking” into the necessary “things” concerning OTHER folks, will be rightly “refreshed” in “heart” while dutifully DEMONSTRATING the grand GRACE of our great “God” by mindfully manifesting a calm “confidence” and obvious “obedience” through HIS sweet – Spiritual VIRTUE!

A Godly ACCOUNTABILITY!

The THIRD mindful motivation to fully FORGIVE from deep within the “heart” is rightly KNOWING that “we” are also absolutely ACCOUTABLE to godly leaders:

But withal prepare me also a lodging: for I trust that through your prayers I shall be given unto you Philemon 22

Here “Paul” requests a “prepared” place of “lodging” with brother “Philemon” and his FAITHFUL family. WHY? Because there MUST be a friendly follow-up on the proposed progress of such a righteous REUNION received. And here “Paul” announces that his anticipated arrival should not only be EXPECTED as a “given” gift from “God” Himself, but that “Philemon” through his purposeful “prayers” would mightily – PRAY Paul there!

In fact, God’s Sovereign wonderful “Will” is very OFTEN righteously worked through the excellent “effectual fervent prayer“ life of a “righteous man” that avidly “availeth much” mined from the POWER of a full “faith” found IN Him:

Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much James 5:16

And this appealing approach actually puts a gentle pressure on brother “Philemon” to do the righteously RIGHT thing. WHY? Because through an awesome ACCOUNTABILITY provided by “Paul” himself, he will have to “give an account” unto his “beloved brother” and special – Spiritual LEADER!

Sweet SALUTATIONS from Paul!

As the “Apostle Paul” carefully CONCLUDES this timely tremendous treatise, “we” meet “Epaphras” the “fellowprisoner” and fine FOUNDER of the Colossian family “fellowship” to whom is most likely its PASTOR in kind by the wonderful “the will of God” unfeigned:

There salute thee Epaphras, my fellowprisoner in Christ Jesus Philemon 23

And as a real RESULT rendered by the prophetic saving POWER of the great “gospel” message of “Christ Jesus” alone eternal – SALVATION ensues!

CONTEXTUAL COMMENTS: Pastor “Epaphras” was also a “fellow servant” and the “faithful minister” of whom had deeply “declared” of the “Colossians” their lavish “love in the Spirit” fully felt FOR each other:

As ye also learned of Epaphras our dear fellow servant, who is for you a faithful minister of Christ; Who also declared unto us your love in the SpiritColossians 1:7-8

And “Paul” does indeed “bear him record” by personally “writing” the loving “letter” unto the “Colossians” as an avid ANSWER to what “Epaphras” had informed him of as he “labouring fervently” with grand “great zeal” and in powerful “prayers” for these PRECIOUS people in kind – A PASTORS heart!

Epaphras, who is one of you, a servant of Christ, saluteth you, always labouring fervently for you in prayers, that ye may stand perfect and complete in all the will of God. For I bear him record, that he hath a great zeal for you, and them that are in Laodicea, and them in Hierapolis Colossians 4:12-13

Another one of the chief characteristics of a true “Christian” and faithful “fellow servant” unto our great “God” is a lavish LOVE for his spiritual “brethren” in our “Lord Jesus Christ” abroad – Love FOR others!

BIBLICAL BACKGROUND: Along with the awesome RESPONSIBILITIES of dutifully delivering the “epistles” expressly “written” by the “Apostle Paul” from the city of “Rome” unto the Ephesian and Colossian congregations, we find that “Tychicus” was excellently ENTRUSTED to directly deliver this personal “letter” unto “Philemonin kind. And he was accompanied by the rank run-away slave “Onesimus” with an “appeal” for full “forgiveness” and acceptance as a legitimate “brother” in our “Lord Jesus Christ” emphasizing the NEED for God’s “grace” received. The “man” with a SERVANT heart of whom “makes” himself AVAILABLE unto “God” will be “used” boldly BY Him in AMAZING ways never dreamed possible! In fact, on each of these wonderful “ministry” occasions, “Tychicus” and “Onesimus” were PERSONALLY involved in meaningful “ministry” mandate alongside the mighty “Apostle Paul” and were deemed apt “ambassadors” for our Great “God” Himself – Wonderful KINGDOM Work!

Now let's take a look at FOUR mighty “men of God” of whom “Paul” mindfully mentions named “Marcus,” “Aristarchus,” “Demas” and “Lucas” as his “fellowlabourers” of whom possessed a SYMPATHETIC heavy “heart” of sincere SERVICE unto other people…

Marcus, Aristarchus, Demas, Lucas, my fellowlabourers Philemon 24

FELLOWSHIP FOLLOW-UP: As diligently discussed in our previous studies of this excellent “epistle” extraordinaire, the “Apostle Paul” eventually COMMENDS brother “Marcus” himself. And although he COWARDLY had once “departed for a season” some twelve years earlier has now become rightly RESTORED to firm FELLOWSHIP and was thus made quite “profitable” for MUCH meaningful “ministry” unto “God” in kind:

Only Luke is with me. Take Mark, and bring him with thee: for he is profitable to me for the ministry 2 Timothy 4:11

Graciously, our “Lord Jesus Christ” would eventually USE this man “Mark” for a mighty “ministry” as a MATURE servant of “God” in kind. HOW? By willingly “writing” the God-inspired Gospel of Mark of which bears his very name – Usefulness FOR God!

Next “Paul” mentions brother “Aristarchus” of whom was a “Jew” born with a “Greek” name, of which was quite common in the Jewish Dispersion abroad. Incidentally, his name appears in association with the “city” of “Macedonia” as well as “Thessalonica” in kind. And when a rank RIOT had broken out, there was great “confusion” throughout the “whole city” in that “Aristarchus” and “Gaius” were “caught” by a MAD mob. WHY? Because they were recognized as the “Apostle Paul's” dynamic accompanying companions:

And the whole city was filled with confusion: and having caught Gaius and Aristarchus, men of Macedonia, Paul's companions in travel, they rushed with one accord into the theatre Acts 19:29

And entering into a ship of Adramyttium, we launched, meaning to sail by the coasts of Asia; one Aristarchus, a Macedonian of Thessalonica, being with us Acts 27:2

Aristarchus my fellow prisoner saluteth you, and Marcus, sister's son to Barnabas, (touching whom ye received commandments: if he come unto you, receive him;) Colossians 4:10

Whatever it was that “Aristarchus” actually did FOR the cause of “Jesus Christ” unfurled, he had gladly given up his personal freedom to DO so unto completion. Therefore, “Aristarchus” was indeed ANOTHER amazing – Faithful Friend!

Finally, “Paul” mentions “Demas” along with “Lucas” also known as “Luke” his personal “beloved physician” by including them both AGAIN in this list of BOLD brethren “written” unto brother “Philemon” in kind:

Luke, the beloved physician, and Demas, greet you Colossians 4:14

Doctor “Luke” was a personal friend and capable medical doctor unto the “Apostle Paul” himself. And it is interesting to note that on his FIRST missionary journey, “Paul” was quite “sick” much of the time. Therefore, when he “departed” for his SECOND missionary journey, he brought along brother “Luke” with him. WHY? Because within “God's” wonderful “ministry” work, He utilizes SPECIALISTS of absolutely ALL kinds! In fact, it was Doctor “Luke” who wrote the New Testament historical narrative of the early first-century “church” found within the book of Acts as well as the great Gospel of Luke bearing his own name with perfect – PERCISION and ACURACY!

Conversely, “Demas” had audaciously “loved” this evil “present world” and thus had SADLY fully “forsaken” pastor “Paul” as a result:

For Demas hath forsaken me, having loved this present world, and is departed unto Thessalonica... 2 Timothy 4:10

Similar to the mayhem originally CAUSED by brothers “Mark” and “Onesimus” in kind, this man “Demas” had darkly “departed” from his MINISTRY mandate by running away to the city of “Thessalonica” in an abhorrent abandonment abroad. WHY? Because he FOOLISHLY fell in “love” with this LOST waning “world” system. We are NOT to lavishly “love” this woefully – WICKED World!

In FICKLE fashion, our loving “Lord Jesus Christ” had His jaundice “Judas” in whom to contend and the “Apostle Paul” had his daunting “Demas” in kind. These eerie EXAMPLES are indeed – Seriously SAD Sagas!

A Great GRACE!

The FOURTH mindful motivation to fully FORGIVE from deep within the “heart” is rightly KNOWING that “we” are empowered by the great GRACE of our loving “Lord Jesus Christ” in kind:

The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit. Amen Philemon 25

Beloved, full FORGIVENESS grants “God’s” great mercy! It provides comfort! It brings joy! It pleads for love! It demonstrates obedience! It brings an eager END to silly self-pity along with vindictive vengeance and it THWARTS the evil of “Satan” himself…

Sufficient to such a man is this punishment, which was inflicted of many. So that contrariwise ye ought rather to forgive him, and comfort him, lest perhaps such a one should be swallowed up with overmuch sorrow. Wherefore I beseech you that ye would confirm your love toward him. For to this end also did I write, that I might know the proof of you, whether ye be obedient in all things. To whom ye forgive anything, I forgive also: for if I forgave anything, to whom I forgave it, for your sakes forgave I it in the person of Christ;  Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices 2 Corinthians 2:6-11

An ENCOURAGING Ending!

And just HOW did this sweet story of FORGIVENESS end? There is NO doubt that brother “Philemon” had faithfully FORGIVEN brother “Onesimus” fully. And as a real result, the ENTIRE fellowship of “churches” would have KNOWN all about this precious example as well! In fact, extra-Biblical history records that a certain man named “Onesimus” eventually became the appointed “pastor” of the “church” body meeting in Ephesus abroad. And who knows, perhaps he was the very – SAME man…

*ANTICIPATED APPLICATION* Our full FORGIVENESS does NOT necessarily guarantee there will be a right RECOVERY in kind. Are “we” to FORGIVE in full from the HEART?YES! However, a restored right RELATIONSHIP will indeed only come WHEN and IF the offending “sinner” comes back and seriously SEEKS to Biblically establish a real “heart” change resulting in a right– RECONCILIATION, RESTORATION and RESTITUTION!

Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repent, forgive him. And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him Luke 17:3-4

Beloved, our “heart” must NOT hold a griping GRUDGE or belligerent BITTERNESS as “we” rightly reach out to that offending person with the LOVE from on High! Much akin to the “sinning” brandish “brother” within the Corinthian congregation…

It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have his father's wife. And ye are puffed up, and have not rather mourned, that he that hath done this deed might be taken away from among you. For I verily, as absent in body, but present in spirit, have judged already, as though I were present, concerning him that hath so done this deed, In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when ye are gathered together, and my spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ, To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus. Your glorying is not good. Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump? Purge out therefore the old leaven, that ye may be a new lump, as ye are unleavened. For even Christ our passover is sacrificed for us: Therefore let us keep the feast, not with old leaven, neither with the leaven of malice and wickedness; but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth1 Corinthians 5:1-5

And this dastardly “deed” of fierce “fornication” representing the looming “leaven of malice and wickedness” was faithfully followed by a full FORGIVENESS deeply “determined” towards this rightly REPENTANT bothered “brother” as the Corinthian congregation moves to confidently “confirm” their “love” concerning a real RECONCILIATION, RESTORATION and RESTITUTION in kind:

But I determined this with myself, that I would not come again to you in heaviness. For if I make you sorry, who is he then that maketh me glad, but the same which is made sorry by me? And I wrote this same unto you, lest, when I came, I should have sorrow from them of whom I ought to rejoice; having confidence in you all, that my joy is the joy of you all. For out of much affliction and anguish of heart I wrote unto you with many tears; not that ye should be grieved, but that ye might know the love which I have more abundantly unto you. But if any have caused grief, he hath not grieved me, but in part: that I may not overcharge you all. Sufficient to such a man is this punishment, which was inflicted of many. So that contrariwise ye ought rather to forgive him, and comfort him, lest perhaps such a one should be swallowed up with overmuch sorrow. Wherefore I beseech you that ye would confirm your love toward him. For to this end also did I write, that I might know the proof of you, whether ye be obedient in all things. To whom ye forgive anything, I forgive also: for if I forgave anything, to whom I forgave it, for your sakes forgave I it in the person of Christ; Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices2 Corinthians 2:1-11

This is the very kind of fantastic FORGIVENESS of which our “Lord Jesus Christ” illustrated for “us” on the cruel crass “cross” of a “Calvary” carnage:

Then said Jesus, Fatherforgive them; for they know not what they do. And they parted his raiment, and cast lots Luke 23:34

These menacing men were NOT even ASKING for His eternal FORGIVENESS, but He had already made it AVAILABLE to them! And “God” expressed the absence of a personal vile VENGEANCE against these pious people that had NAILED Him on that crass “cross” itself. The Honorable HEART of “Jesus Christ” is indeed the great GRACE of our great “God” through His – Fantastic FORGIVENESS!

Such is the POWER of faithful FORGIVENESS in kind – AMEN!

In closing:

REMNANT REMINDER: This excellent “epistle” lovingly “written” unto brother “Philemon” is a very IMPORTANT book, even though it may seem inconsequential on the surface. It is only one chapter in length and has been divided into twenty-five rather short verses. And although it is very PERSONAL in nature, at first glance it doesn’t appear to contain deep “doctrines” nor any firm confrontations of significant theological “error” as such. However, our “Lord” has indeed INCLUDED this terrific text as an INSPIRED writing of the “Holy Spirit” Himself – For OUR spiritual EDIFICATION!

Throughout ALL of the “Scriptures” themselves, “we” find REPLETE with dire directives carefully COMMANDING those of “us” that BELONG unto “our” loving “Lord Jesus Christ” to fully “forgive” the wrongs suffered by other people. And NO one is MORE like “God the Father” Himself than when they “forgive” from the “heart” completely. WHY? Because HE too is a “forgiving Father” as such…

And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever. Amen. For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you: But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses Matthew 6:12–15

And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you Ephesians 4:32

Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye Colossians 3:13

Therefore, the “Apostle Paul” provides further INSTRUCTION penned to “Philemon” on the subject of “forgiving” found here within the shortest of all his “epistles” regarding the Biblical definition of faithful FORGIVENESS itself – Without EVER using the word!

REAL REFLECTIONS: Are you a “Christian” who fully FORGIVES other folks? The pinnacle of full FORGIVENESS is the eternal example given by our “Lord Jesus Christ” Himself. And the greatest act of TREACHERY done against anyone was by the HANDS of heinous humans against Him. And yet He “said” to His “Father” on THEIR behalf:

Then said Jesus, Fatherforgive them; for they know not what they doLuke 23:34a

And even though they were DOING what “God the Father” Sovereignly wanted DONE unto “Jesus Christ” the “Son” Himself, it did NOT lessen their – PERSONAL culpability!

Please begin reading through the excellent book of Philemon concerning our “command” to lovingly LIVE out our “lives” in complete Faithful Forgiveness unto others – AMEN!

Praise the Lord Jesus Christ!

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